Friend from class XI & XII says:
Hi
Friend from class XI & XII says:
What’s up?
IHM says:
Hi
IHM says:
how are you?
Friend from class XI & XII says:
How was Diwali?
IHM says:
ok ok
Friend from class XI & XII says:
I'm good
IHM says:
how was yours?
Friend from class XI & XII says:
beautiful rangoli you made
Friend from class XI & XII says:
v good
IHM says:
Daughter not me
IHM says:
loves making rangoli
Friend from class XI & XII says:
hmmmmn ....daughters!!!!
IHM says:
that's about the only daughterly thing she does
Friend from class XI & XII says:
boyz were least bothered
IHM says:
ya?
Friend from class XI & XII says:
Son #2 of course put up the lights
Friend from class XI & XII says:
he's handy around the house that way
IHM says:
Daughter helped with that too....she is the handy-girl
IHM says:
it's not sons or daughter, just a matter of interest
Friend from class XI & XII says:
Gender does make a difference!!!!
IHM says:
Like how?
Friend from class XI & XII says:
And why not...........i don't find anything strange in that
IHM says:
Not strange just untrue
Friend from class XI & XII says:
Ha....here you go again
IHM says:
I love to do a lot of stereotypically considered manly things
IHM says:
Love to watch the car being serviced!! Taking pictures, gadgets, gym, ... love dogs- all manly things
IHM says:
I LOVE discussions and debates
You have just sent a nudge.
IHM says:
Did you like my blog?
Friend from class XI & XII says:
i don't care much about discussing ..........
IHM says:
so you are more feminine
Friend from class XI & XII says:
i think its boring....i mean its not that that i'm very rigid about my ideas
Friend from class XI & XII says:
i mean they just fluctuate with issues and situations
Friend from class XI & XII says:
when i say, i miss having a daughter. i just feel maybe .....
Friend from class XI & XII says:
things would be better if there was another girl in the house
IHM says:
no I can imagine that
Friend from class XI & XII says:
now i don't mean things are bad........just different
IHM says:
but they are no different. Kids are just kids
IHM says:
Tho’ it's like having a best friend at home
Friend from class XI & XII says:
Maybe she would've been interested in rangolis, decorations, cooking, in other finer skills..........
Friend from class XI & XII says:
but i know she maynot ........then it may have been difficult to handle....
IHM says:
she likes cooking, but Son baked a chocolate cake for Diwali, he hates Indian sweets
Friend from class XI & XII says:
Son #1 is an excellent cook...........
Friend from class XI & XII says:
Son # 2 makes pop corn; mine never turn out like his
IHM says:
That is what I mean
IHM says:
why bind them in manmade rules, let them grow and be creative, whatever their interests
Friend from class XI & XII says:
of course.....who's stopping them or denying that
IHM says:
I know you won't do that, I feel you say this ‘daughters are like that’ thing just like that,
Friend from class XI & XII says:
Still the basic difference between the genders can't be denied
IHM says:
of course they are different but there are no stereotypes
Friend from class XI & XII says:
.....so we are saying the same things.............only in different words
IHM says:
As a kid I used to fight with mum if someone said 'your daughters have grown up now they should help you in the kitchen' in a patronising tone, we never let her force us to learn to cook, you remember how I was...
Friend from class XI & XII says:
I know what you mean but I also remember you saying that you wish your mom had made you learn cooking
Friend from class XI & XII says:
So.........it’s not about the skills you learn or don't
IHM says:
Yeah but today I can say with pride that she was right in not forcing even in those days
Friend from class XI & XII says:
I think its momentary feelings
IHM says:
All kids should help all parents. No given rigid roles...skills are good, one should be encouraged to learn but NOT because one is a boy or a girl.
Friend from class XI & XII says:
phew....yes ma'm. I AGREE
IHM says:
LOL
IHM says:
:)
Friend from class XI & XII says:
i like your vehemence about these issues
IHM says:
Okay tell me what you think of my blog
Friend from class XI & XII says:
i read it in a glance...........like impatiently.....but whatever i could make of it, i think it was excellent
Friend from class XI & XII says:
now i will read it with more interest and patience
IHM says:
I am going to add this conversation minus our names...
Friend from class XI & XII says:
OH.......really.GREAT
Friend from class XI & XII says:
send me the link again
IHM says:
okaaaa
Friend from class XI & XII says:
LINK???? send me again
IHM says:
http://lifeofanindianhomemaker.blogspot.com/
Friend from class XI & XII says:
i read this one, threat revenge one, so she is in Texas?
IHM says:
ya
Friend from class XI & XII says:
it gives you a chance to voice your opinion and maybe make ...give a different perspective
Friend from class XI & XII says:
Double standards
Friend from class XI & XII says:
I know that the actual RSS workers are the real social activists
Friend from class XI & XII says:
i have see them in my family
IHM says:
but
Friend from class XI & XII says:
I even heard them saying that with time, things have changed, now its only the greed for power and popularity is what is driving them
IHM says:
and now affron terrorism
IHM says:
saffron
Friend from class XI & XII says:
they are not what the original RSS used to be
Friend from class XI & XII says:
chalo bye for now
IHM says:
ya
Friend from class XI & XII says:
yeah.........and much more and in the most hideous way
IHM says:
can you imagine rioting first, then now planting bombs
Friend from class XI & XII says:
actualy its so disgusting.........
IHM says:
yes.
Friend from class XI & XII says:
all this politics
IHM says:
more for someone who has seen how they were earlier
Friend from class XI & XII says:
well....just a tip of the iceberg
Friend from class XI & XII says:
its terrible
IHM says:
okay bye..they are all clamouring for attention here, the kids, the dogs everyone!!
Friend from class XI & XII says:
i can't imagine how or why the Centre is quiet???
Friend from class XI & XII says:
chalo bye for now
IHM says:
bye
